Moonink Wrote:"guys ik skelly is upset and all but if you wanna talk why dont you go to her wall? there are other people that rp here and i dont want them to come back to this when they've been gone for a while and be scared off. And no it isn't that I don't care about skelly, i just feel like serious matters like this shouldn't be talked about on a roleplay forum for anyone to see, and should be talked about privately on her wall."
it really seems that moon doesn't understand what's happening, although she cares that skeleton should take her problems elsewhere so she can involve her friends in roleplay.
Reed, it looks like you didn't take any part of helping her out.
(whats going on? i wanted skelly to get off this because its not a serious enough enviroment for talking about her problems. half of the people are roleplaying and half of them aren't, so i wanted so if she wanted to talk we could do so privately on her wall. i was planning on talking to her as well and wasn't planning on forgetting about it all, so.
(We've been perfectly pleasant? All of this started because she started acting irritated so we asked her what was wrong and this started. I don't see how me wanting to take this conversation off this thread and onto her wall is a problem, when I wanted it to be more private and a more serious atmosphere then a roleplaying forum, thats how all issues are solved, taking them somewhere private and resolving them calmly. You don't IRL just go out and start arguing in public, and if you do it's very rude to do so.
Also, let me add this. We never ever ignored her. A few other people were roleplaying and she wasn't, and it had only been for 10 minutes or so. The people she were roleplaying with (I think) had gone offline so she couldn't roleplay. I've watched roleplays MANY times and never felt ignored. She could of easily asked to jump in or anything, and once she said she was gonna go, we politely said goodnight, and that's when she started acting irritated and telling us to 'go away.' I've watched roleplays on her for up to an hour and never felt ignored, so if she felt ignored it was because she was upset, not because of us. I'm sorry she's upset and having a rough time, but if she's upset she shouldn't be on a silly roleplaying forum, she should be talking to her IRL friends, you as her cousin, or another trusted adult. We can't do anything, we're just teens. We were ALL trying to help her out, and if you'd read above I was trying to help her too, not just Star. I told her to calm down and told her I was sorry she had a bad day.
((We apologize if we made her feel bad, we didn’t expect that our words would do that. I do believe that all of us were just trying to help, nobody wants to hurt her. I think everybody was a little confused because the change in mood was very sudden. That doesn’t make it any less valid, obviously, but I think that everyone was just trying to sort out the situation and it got a little confusing...))